Ughhh I hate hippocrates lol I can say that because I used to be one lol Have you spoken to him about it? what are you waiting for, maybe you should say hey honey lets swap I-phones for the day, whats your pass words, here are mine hahhaha if he has a stroke then you know. LOL but before you go at him about this, you YOU need to ask yourself some hard questions, are you Mr, Fidelity? are you wanting some dick or ass on the side, if so then you need to really think about what you want to say to this man in your life , do you want to guilt him and make him feel bad or are you in the same boat, do you understand him and want to work some deal out with him about an open situation because you might enjoy those same sexual freedoms that he has been enjoying, so please do yourself a big flavor :) think hard and long before you open the can of worms.
Since you asked: MY OPINION lol I have found that In my experience, guys that are the biggest fidelity preachers are the biggest hypocritical cock and ass hounds around lol…..I mean I know how I feel about it, I think 90% of MALES both straight and gay LOVE sex and there aint nothing you can do about it…. and in fact I do not think they should not be shamed or vilified because of it…. lust is part of what makes us human, its very natural and extremely common to want sex with someone other than your mate, we are all different yet the same in many ways, normal healthy males are pretty much wired with SEX on the brain…SEX is a strong driving force for MOST males…… some guys are not as filled with lustful desires so in-turn they can handle monogamy and dont have a problem with it…. I just think thats a very rare male indeed lol like a gay Chinese talking unicorn RARE….But seriously I can say with all honesty fidelity IS NOT ME for sure, so I can relate to the average male, I am a lust filled beast, sex is something I enjoy very much, and I feel that it is a completely separate thing from the love that I have for my man…. I am a grown man so know the difference between LUST and LOVE… So I guess what I am getting at here is, in my opinion, to ask a male to put his junk on reserve just for you FOREVER! FOREVER! FOR LIFE! seems to me like fighting the tide lol I believe you should own who you are be the best male you can be if thats a lust filled man then be honest about it do let people shame you, its better to be honest…. if you cant do it or are incapable of doing it for whatever reason, then its best to be honest and speak plainly with the man you are about to live with and have a relationship with. That’s my two cents, I hope it helps in some way, good luck with your guy, I hope you find an amicable honest solution that helps you save the love life you both deserve.